I have been seeing this guy casually, we’ve hung out sober a couple of times and then asked him if he wanted to get dinner sometime that week. He said, “Oh yeah, maybe,” and then ghosted me. What the fuck. I’m mortified. I feel so fucking stupid, embarrassed, and rejected. How do you handle rejection?
Read MoreI broke up with my long-term boyfriend a year ago. I know he wasn't the right person for me, and we clashed in so many ways. However, I'm still as emotional about it as I was when we first split, and I miss him so badly. How do I fall out of love with someone and move on?
Read MoreI've been going on a date with a new guy every week in Wellington, but I haven't connected with any of them. They’re all disappointing? I'm considering giving up on dating altogether.
Read MoreI cheated on my situationship, became friends with benefits with a new guy, and then he hooked up with someone else. I feel like I was the player, but now I'm the one who got played. Advice please?
Read MoreWhat distinguishes dating from hooking up, and how can you tell when you've transitioned from one to the other?
We want our previous flatmate and friend to come hang out at the flat, but one of our flatmates banned them. They had a fight last year which resulted in them being kicked out of the flat group. What do we do?
Read MoreIs a significant age gap in a relationship weird or creepy, for example the gap between 20 and 25 years old?
Read MoreI'm not experienced with casual dating. The only relationship I’ve ever been in was long-term. How can I avoid being too romantic and potentially scaring off my new partner?
Read MoreI had a great friend group when I moved into the halls, but just before the break, they ghosted me and don't want to be friends anymore. I feel it's an awkward time to make new friends since everyone has already formed their groups. Any suggestions?
Read MoreMy partner just got a PS5. He now spends more time playing with it than me. What should I do?
Read MoreMy boyfriend and I broke up over six months ago. I recently found out that during the beginning of our relationship, he was wining-and-dining another girl.
Read MoreI feel like I spend too much time with my boyfriend, and not enough time with my friends and flatmates. How do I balance it all?
Read MoreI have moved into the halls and discovered that I have an STI. I have slept with five guys since then, and I am worried it will cause a chain reaction.
Read MoreHelp! I found out during the Clubs Expo that my new partner is a Young Nat. I really like them
but our political views clash.
Read MoreI can't help but give my number out to random guys. I have no intention of dating them, but I let them buy me free drinks. I'm in a long-term relationship. How do I stop being an attention whore?
Read MoreI am in love with my flatmate. We have great chemistry, but I'm afraid to pursue it and risk disrupting our living situation.
Read MoreI like a guy in my hall, but I don't know if he's into guys or not. What should I do?
Read More“Since I started flatting, I've been feeling anxious about having sex because I’m loud. I care a lot about my flatties, who are quiet people, and the thought of them overhearing me is mortifying. My sex-life is going downhill in consequence. Any advice?”
Read MoreI've just moved into the halls and I'm crushing on my neighbour. Even worse, he has a girlfriend of over a year. I know I’m not a home wrecker, but this is the hardest I’ve crushed on someone in year. What do I do?!
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